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You Can Care Deeply and Still Need a Break

By By Ashley French
You Can Care Deeply and Still Need a Break
You Can Care Deeply and Still Need a Break

I know I'm not the only one feeling overwhelmed by all that is happening in the world right now. It feels like whenever I open my phone, there’s more bad news, another tragedy, another reason to scroll and scroll in hopes of understanding. Obviously, I think it's important to stay informed, but there’s a point when being up to date 24/7 isn’t helping anyone. It’s just draining you and making you feel helpless. And that’s when you know it’s time to unplug for a little bit.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t care or shouldn’t take action when you can make a difference. Not at all. I deeply believe it’s important to stay informed and engaged. But nobody can give 100% all the time. You have to have something left in the tank if you want to keep showing up for the things that matter. For me, that means taking breaks from the constant stream of information—getting offline, getting outside, connecting with people I love. Every time I do, I feel recharged.

That's because, in order to get through uncertain times, you need moments that make you feel safe and grounded. Sometimes that’s as simple as making dinner with your family, sitting in the sun, or taking a walk without your phone. Those moments don’t mean you’re ignoring the world or that you don't care. They can remind you that even when things feel heavy, lightness still exists.

People sometimes ask about (or just assume) my political leanings. I’ve always been honest about the causes I care about, including reproductive rights. I just prefer to do my work on that front privately. There are so many amazing people who are great at having public conversations about difficult topics and changing minds. I’ve learned that’s not where I’m most effective. I’m most useful when I’m helping people take a short break from the tough stuff. That’s why I became an entertainer in the first place—to make people feel good. And that’s what I want this space to be about: giving you ideas for ways to connect, slow down, and feel good in a world that can feel overwhelming.

That doesn’t mean we check out completely. I think it’s incredibly meaningful to be involved in your community. Volunteer if you can. Donate to organizations that are doing good work. Get to know your neighbors. And if local elections are coming up where you live, make sure you’re registered to vote—and then don't forget to vote!

But also, remember to touch grass. Literally! Put the phone down sometimes and reject the urge to doomscroll. Because no one can keep giving when their tank is empty—and if we're going to create a better world, the world needs all of us at our best.