Chris and I just got back from a weekend together in Big Sur. It's my happy place and truly one of the most beautiful areas I've ever seen. After years of being partly closed due to repairs, Highway 1 is fully open again, so it's the perfect time to visit.
You don't go to Big Sur to be busy, but to unwind. It's one of those places where the doing matters less than the being. You'll probably arrive a little wound-up and leave feeling calmer than you remember being in a long time. This is how I like to experience Big Sur, from the redwoods overhead to the Pacific Ocean below.